Lovely sentiment. I hope she appreciates you too..

Should have taken a step or two to the left... then we wouldn't see you in the reflection, but would still see the tower.

Blur seems to have been added around the subject, it looks quite unnatural. I think the unedited version would probably look much better.

You have shown Paris in a nice way in the goggles.

is the post editing blur allowed.....

Remove the blur, it's such a great pic!!!

Is this tiltshifting or photoshop?

this is ps, not tilt shift!

pretty wife

what is the effect used here?

Convert to B&W and curves adjustment

Very nice

Sent psd file to mods..showing just desaturate, curves , brightness/contrast adjustment

And here is a link to a similar tutorial http://hyperninja.com/photoshop-tutorial-solarize-a-ninja/

Sombre and moody image.